What Makes You Beautiful

lagu ni sgt buat aku terawang2.. smlm br ckp ngan husband..kalau u bg lagu ni kt i mase kte sblm kawen dulu mesti i koya and senyum sorg2.. eheh.. juz imagine, this song menggambarkan the feeling of this boy yg head over heels kt this one girl.. mcm there's no one except her.. uishh.. aku boleh imagine la kalau teens these days akan berguling2 tgk gamba bf sambil2 dgr lagu ni.. hehe.. nak2 kalau bf dedicate this song to her.. pastu senyum sorg2 malu2 cheeks blushing.. ehh.. mcm aku plak dh.. haha.. but sape2 yg dgr lagu ni mesti sgt berada di Cloud 9 and being on top of the world.. hehe..

the band ni mcm ala2 boy band.. i understand bdk2 akan go crazy over this band.. they're cute, don't u think so? mcm mase aku skolah dulu2 aku sgt suke kt BSB (well who doesnt kan?) video clip die best.. bibi, ade VW Combi.. haha.. the place is so cantik.. such a beautiful scenery SubhanAllah.. ok peeps.. enjoy the video ye?

You're insecure, don't know what for  
You're turning heads when you walk through the do-o-or  
Don't need make-up - to cover up  
Being the way that you are is eno-o-ough
Everyone else in the room can see it  
Everyone else but yo-ou

Baby you light up my world like nobody else  
The way that you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed  
But when you smile at the ground, it ain't hard to tell  
You don't know Oh oh  
You don't know you're beautiful!
If only you saw what I can see  
You'll understand why I want you so desperatley  
Right now I'm looking at you and I can't believe  
You don't know Oh oh  
You don't know you're beautiful!  
Oh oh That's what makes you beautiful!

So c-come on, you got it wrong  
To prove I'm right I put it in a so-o-ong
I don't know why, you're being shy  
And turn away when I look in to your eye eye eyes
Everyone else in the room can see it  
Everyone else but yo-ou

Baby you light up my world like nobody else  
The way that you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed  
But when you smile at the ground, it ain't hard to tell  
You don't know Oh oh  
You don't know you're beautiful!  


If only you saw what I can see  
You'll understand why I want you so desperatley  
Right now I'm looking at you and I can't believe  
You don't know Oh oh You don't know you're beautiful!  Oh oh  
That's what makes you beautiful!
Na na na na na na naaaa na na, Na na na na na na. Na na na na na na naaaa na na, Na na na na na na.

Baby you light up my world like nobody else  
The way that you flip you're hair gets me overwhelmed  
But when you smile at the ground, it ain't hard to tell  
You don't know Oh oh  
You don't know you're beautiful!
Baby you light up my world like nobody else  

The way that you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed  
But when you smile at the ground, it ain't hard to tell  
You don't know No Oh oh  
You don't know you're beautiful!  
If only you saw what I can see  
You'll understand why I want you so desperatley  
Right now I'm looking at you and I can't believe  
You don't know No Oh oh  
You don't know you're beautiful!  
No Oh oh You don't know you're beautiful!  
No Oh oh That's what makes you beautiful!

Pea in The Pod..

yepp.. u read that right.. Adam is on his way becoming a big brother.. alhamdulillah.. i am 6 weeks pregnant.. it was unexpected as i have just stopped eating pills.. like 2-3 days before i went to Bandung.. then i was on menstrual on my 2nd day at Bandung.. biase la hormon jd huru hare after xmkn.. i was thinking, xkan lekat ni sbb my gynae said dat i have retroverted uterus..

here's an excerpt from http://anteverteduterus.net/retroverted-uterus-pregnancy/retroverted-and-anteverted-uterus-pregnancy/

There can be some retroverted and anteverted uterus pregnancy issues that might arise in the long run and we would be discussing some of them here. Before we get started with the details of the pregnancy issues associated with anteverted uterus, you need to understand the meaning of the different uterus orientations that are important here. The first type of orientation is known as the anteverted uterus, a condition which is considered to be more common than the retroverted uterus. The anteverted uterus is all about the inclination of the uterus towards the abdomen of the body. This is a common condition and not many problems have been associated with it. On the other hand, you have the retroverted uterus, which can have some sort of underlying causes. The retroverted uterus is a bit more complex than the anteverted uterus and can lead to some issues during pregnancy.

Impact on Pregnancy

The anteverted uterus is quite common and in most cases, there is almost no impact on the pregnancy. You would find that the condition of anteverted uterus does not create any sort of problems and does not impact fertility in any way. Generally, women with anteverted uterus do not have to undertake any sort of special treatment and their condition is considered to be totally normal. On the other hand, the retroverted uterus can create problems for some women, depending on the extent of the orientation that is present. Even then, most of the pregnancy related complications are linked with the underlying cause behind the retroverted uterus. These problems, like endometriosis, can impact the fertility of the woman and create problems in conceiving. Therefore, it is important that you get a complete early pregnancy or pre pregnancy test done to ensure that your uterus is in a perfect condition.
u can read more on diz topic in http://www.womens-health.co.uk/retrover.asp

so mine was the green one.. tak la teruk.. as i was saying.. bile dh doc mcm tu, aku mcm ok.. boleh rest dulu sbb kes tu buat payah dpt anak.. i was fine with it.. dh test dh mase adam cukup setahun.. gatal kan? aku stop mkn pill 3-4 bulan.. nothing happen la mase tu.. so, both of us ckp, lps blk Bandung we want to pegi berurut and conceive for a second baby.. i ask for a second opinion from one of the docs.. she said my uterus has somehow sudah beralih.. tp kalau nk g berurut pon xpe.. so i guess, boleh la conceive nxt year bln 1 sbb nk baby due october.. hehe.. tp tak sangke lekat dgn cpat.. Alhamdulillah..

i did the pregnancy tests twice.. first test tu The Line in the window tu mcm agak samar.. sbb aku wat kul 11pm.. hehe.. when i went out from the bathroom, i smiled to my husband.. die pny statement, "period la tu?" then i showed the cassette to him.. die mcm antara nk senyum n tak.. i said jgn over excited sgt.. then on Monday after Xmas tu, i checked it for the second time.. this time the both lines menyale2.. hehe..

the first cassette was taken on 24th December and the second one was on 26th December.. =) so far, i have no morning sickness (yet).. selera makan pon masih ok.. i eat a little at a time tapi mkn dgn kerap.. mcm 2hrs skali mesti rase lapa walaupun makan nasi lemak n telur mate n teh ais for breakfast.. haha.. lain mcm selera for my second pregnancy ni.. i hope, morning sickness tak la seteruk mase Adam dulu and i hope for a girl pulak diz time.. Insya Allah..

JANJI ALLAH BAGI ORG YANG MAHU BERKAHWIN....

1-“Wanita - wanita yang keji adalah untuk lelaki yang keji, dan lelaki yang keji adalah buat wanita - wanita yang keji (pula), dan wanita- wanita yang baik adalah untuk lelaki yang baik dan lelaki yang baik adalah untuk wanita- wanita yang baik (pula)”. (An Nuur : 26)  


Bila ingin mendapatkan jodoh yang baik, maka perbaikilah diri. Hiduplah sesuai dengan ajaran Islam dan Sunnah Nabi-Nya. Jadilah lelaki yang soleh, jadilah wanita yang solehah. Semoga Allah memberikan hanya yang baik buat kita. Amin.  


2-“Dan kahwinikanlah orang-orang yang bujang diantara kamu dan orang-orang yang layak (berkahwin) dari hamba-hamba sahayamu yang lelaki dan perempuan. Jika mereka miskin, Allah akan memberikan mereka dengan kurniaan-Nya. Dan Allah Maha Luas (Pemberian-Nya) lagi Maha Mengetahui”. (An Nur: 32)  

Sebagian para pemuda ada yang merasa bingung dan bimbang ketika akan berkahwin. Salah satu sebabnya adalah kerana belum mempunyai pekerjaan. Dan yang peliknya ketika para pemuda telah mempunyai pekerjaan pun tetap ada perasaan bimbang juga. Sebahagian mereka tetap ragu dengan harta yang mereka dapatkan dari gajinya. Dalam fikiran mereka terdetik, “adakah cukup untuk berkeluarga dengan gaji sekian?”.  


Ayat tersebut merupakan jawapan buat mereka yang masih ragu untuk melangkah ke alam pernikahan kerana alasan ekonomi. Yang perlu ditekankan kepada para pemuda dalam masalah ini adalah kesanggupan untuk memberi nafkah, dan terus bekerja mencari nafkah memenuhi tuntutan berkeluarga. Bukan besarnya wang ringgit yang perlu dibimbangkan. Kelak, Allah akan menolong mereka yang berkahwin. Allah Maha Adil, bila tanggung jawab para pemuda bertambah – dengan kewajiban menafkahi isteri-isteri dan anak-anaknya – maka Allah akan memberikan rezeki yang lebih. Tidakkah kita lihat kenyataan di dalam masyarakat, kebanyakan mereka yang bermula dengan kemiskinan, tidak mempunyai apa-apa ketika menikah, kemudian Allah memberinya rezeki yang melimpah-ruah dan mencukupkan segala kekurangannya?  


3-“ Ada tiga golongan manusia yang berhak Allah tolong mereka, iaitu seorang mujahid fi sabilillah, seorang hamba yang menebus dirinya supaya merdeka dan seorang yang bernikah kerana ingin memelihara kehormatannya”. (HR. Ahmad 2: 251, Nasaei, Tirmidzi, Ibnu Majah hadis no. 2518, dan Hakim 2: 160)  

Bagi siapa saja yang bernikah dengan niat menjaga kesucian dirinya, maka berhak mendapatkan pertolongan dari Allah berdasarkan penegasan Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘
alaihi wa sallam dalam hadis ini. Dan pertolongan Allah itu pasti datang.  


4-“Dan diantara tanda-tanda kekuasaan-Nya ialah Dia menciptakan untukmu isteri-
isteri dari jenismu sendiri, supaya kamu cenderung dan merasa tenteram kepadanya, dan dijadikan-Nya di antaramu rasa kasih dan sayang. Sesungguhnya pada yang demikian itu benar-benar terdapat tanda-tanda bagi kaum yang berfikir”(Ar Rum : 21)  


5-“Dan Tuhanmu berfirman : ‘Berdoalah kepada-Ku, nescaya akan Kuperkenankan bagimu. Sesungguhnya orang-orang yang memalingkan diri dari menyembah-Ku akan masuk neraka Jahanam dalam keadaan hina dina’ ”. (Al Mu’min : 60)  

Ini juga janji Allah ‘Azza wa Jalla, bila kita berdoa kepada Allah nescaya akan diperkenankan-
Nya. Termasuk di dalamnya ketika kita berdoa memohon diberikan pasangan hidup yang agamanya baik, cantik, taat dan sbgnya.  


Dalam berdoa perhatikan adab dan sebab terkabulnya doa. Diantaranya adalah ikhlas, bersungguh-
sungguh, merendahkan diri, mengadap kiblat, mengangkat kedua tangan, dll.  


Perhatikan juga waktu-waktu yang mustajab dalam berdoa. Di antaranya adalah berdoa pada waktu sepertiga malam yang terakhir dimana para malaikat turun dari langit dunia bersama-
sama mengaminkan , pada waktu antara azan dan iqamah, pada waktu turun hujan, dll.  


Perhatikan juga penghalang terkabulnya doa. Di antaranya adalah makan dan minum dari yang haram, juga makan, minum dari usaha dan sumber yang haram, melakukan apa yang diharamkan Allah, dll.  


Manfaat lain dari berdoa bererti kita meyakini kekuasaan Allah, mengakui bahwa Allah itu tempat meminta, mengakui bahwa Allah Maha Kaya, mengakui bahwa Allah Maha Mendengar, dll.  


Sebahagian orang ketika jodohnya tidak sampai-sampai maka mereka pergi ke dukun-dukun dan bomoh berharap agar jodohnya lancar. Sebahagian orang ada juga yang menggunakan guna-guna dan sihir. Cara-cara seperti ini jelas dilarang oleh Islam. Perhatikan hadis-hadis berikut yang merupakan peringatan keras dari Rasulullah Sollallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam:  


“Barang siapa yang mendatangi peramal nasib / dukun, lalu ia menanyakan sesuatu kepadanya, maka tidak diterima solatnya selama empat puluh malam”. (Hadis sahih riwayat Muslim (7/37) dan Ahmad)  


Telah bersabda Rasulullah sollallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, “Maka janganlah kamu mendatangi peramal-
peramal nasib itu.”
(Sahih riwayat Muslim juz 7 hal. 35).  


Telah bersabda Nabi shallallahu ‘
alaihi wa sallam, “
Sesungguhnya jampi-
jampi (mantera) dan guna-guna (sihir) itu adalah (hukumnya) syirik.”
(Hadis sahih riwayat Abu Daud (no. 3883), Ibnu Majah (no. 3530), Ahmad dan Hakim).  


6-”Mintalah pertolongan (kepada Allah) dengan sabar dan solat”. (Al Baqarah : 153)

Mintalah tolong kepada Allah dengan sabar dan solat. Tentunya agar datang pertolongan Allah, maka kita juga harus bersabar sesuai dengan Sunnah Nabi Sollallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam. Juga harus solat sesuai Sunnahnya dan terbebas dari bid’
ah-bid’ah.  


7-“Kerana sesungguhnya sesudah kesulitan itu ada kemudahan, sesungguhnya sesudah kesulitan itu ada kemudahan”. (Alam Nasyrah : 5 –
6)  

 


Ini juga janji Allah. Mungkin terasa bagi kita jodoh yang dinanti tidak kunjung tiba. Segalanya terasa sulit. Tetapi kita harus tetap berbaik sangka kepada Allah dan yakinlah bahwa sesudah kesulitan itu ada kemudahan. Allah sendiri yang menegaskan dua kali dalam Surah An- Nasyrah.  


8-“Hai orang-orang yang beriman jika kamu menolong (agama) Allah, nescaya Dia akan menolongmu dan meneguhkan kedudukanmu”
.(Muhammad : 7)  

 


Supaya Allah Tabaraka wa Ta’ala menolong kita, maka kita tolong agama Allah. Baik dengan berinfak di jalan-Nya, membantu penyebaran dakwah Islam dengan penyebaran buletin atau buku-buku Islam,
membantu penyelenggaraan pengajian, dll. Dengan itu semoga Allah menolong kita.  


9-“Sesungguhnya Allah pasti menolong orang yang menolong (agama)-
Nya.Sesungguhnya Allah benar-benar Maha Kuat lagi Maha Perkasa”. (Al Hajj : 40)  


10-“Ingatlah, sesungguhnya pertolongan Allah itu amat dekat”
.(Al Baqarah : 214)  


Itulah janji Allah. Dan Allah tidak akan menyalahi janjinya. Kalaupun Allah tidak / belum mengabulkan doa kita, tentu ada hikmah dan kasih sayang Allah yang lebih besar buat kita. Kita harus berbaik sangka kepada Allah. Inilah keyakinan yang harus ada pada setiap muslim dan muslimah.  


Jadi, kenapa ragu dengan janji Allah?

Things you never put in your resume

taken from: 
http://financiallyfit.yahoo.com/finance/article-113810-11701-4-11-things-you-should-never-put-on-your-resume?ywaad=ad0035&nc


1. Get rid of the objective.
If you applied, it's already obvious you want the job.

2. Cut out all the irrelevant work experiences.
If you're still listing that prized shift leader position from your high school days, it's time to move on.
Yes, you might've been the "king of making milkshakes," but unless you're planning on redeeming that title, it's time to get rid of all that clutter.

3. Take a pass on the personal stuff: marital status, religious preference and Social Security numbers.
This might've been the standard in the past, but all of this information is now illegal for your employer to ask you so there's no need to include it. It will likely only hurt your chances of getting the position more than it would help you, says Catherine Jewell, author of the book "New Résumé, New Career."
[See also: Jobs That Died in 2011]
Another piece of personal information you should never include on your resume is your Social Security number, Sara Player, client support specialist for CareerBuilder.com, told us. Player isn't actually sure why people decide to include their social security numbers, but she knows she sees it all too often and it's unnecessary, not to mention, a little risky.

4. Don't let your resume exceed one page.
Yes, this might be difficult if you've had a lot of experience and you're proud of all of it. But just because you're proud doesn't mean it's necessarily relevant. Cut it down; employers don't have the time to read two whole pages.
CareerBuilder.com's Sara Player says: "Keep your work history short and to the point. When you describe what you have achieved while in the position, try putting it in bullet form and put what is most important first."

5. Don't list your hobbies.
"Nobody cares — it's not your facebook profile," Player says.
In other words, don't put anything on your resume that's irrelevant to your job. If it's not relevant, then it's a waste of space and a waste of the company's time.

6. Don't give them the chance to guess your age.
Yes, your age is included in personal data, but if you don't want to be discriminated from a position because of your age, it's time to remove your graduation date, says Catherine Jewell. Doug Hadley of Mansfield, Texas, told MSN that he's begun to leave out the fact that he's a published author: "I don't want to have to omit such things, but I feel as though I don't even get considered if they are on my resume." Sara Player advises to take out higher education if it's irrelevant to the position you're applying for or if you keep receiving rejection letters stating that you're overqualified.

7. Don't write your resume in the third person.
Charlotte Beckett, head of Digital at The Good Agency, told Linkedin.com that it's fine to write in first person in your opening statement, but the rest of your resume should be in bullet points, such as:
• Developed and delivered marketing strategies for a range of products. You should not write in the third person since the recruiter knows you're the one writing the resume.

8. Don't include references.
If your employers want to speak to your references, they'll ask you. Also, it's better if you have a chance to tell your references ahead of time that a future employer might be calling.If you say "references upon request" at the bottom of your resume, you're merely wasting a valuable line, says career coach Eli Amdur.

9. Don't include a less-than-professional email account.
Make a new one. It takes minutes and it's free.

10. There's no need to identify your phone number.
Amdur says there's no reason to put the word "phone" in front of the actual number.
"It's pretty silly. They know it's your phone number." The same rule applies to email.

11. Don't include your current business contact info.
Amdur writes at Northjersey.com:
"This is not only dangerous, it's stupid. Do you really want employers calling you at work? How are you going to handle that? Oh, and by the way, your current employer can monitor your e-mails and phone calls. So if you're not in the mood to get fired, or potentially charged with theft of services (really), then leave the business info off."

Lana Del Rey - Video Games

this song is really something wen u listen n pay attention to the lyrics..her face mcm sgt oldies.. loike her a lotttttt!!!

Video Games

Swinging in the backyard
Pull up in your fast car
Whistling my name

Open up a beer
And you say get over here
And play a video game

I'm in his favorite sun dress
Watching me get undressed
Take that body downtown

I say you the bestest
Lean in for a big kiss
Put his favorite perfume on

Go play a video game

It's you, it's you, it's all for you
Everything I do
I tell you all the time
Heaven is a place on earth with you
Tell me all the things you want to do
I heard that you like the bad girls
Honey, is that true?
It's better than I ever even knew
They say that the world was built for two
Only worth living if somebody is loving you
Baby now you do

Singing in the old bars
Swinging with the old stars
Living for the fame

Kissing in the blue dark
Playing pool and wild darts
Video games

He holds me in his big arms
Drunk and I am seeing stars
This is all I think of

Watching all our friends fall
In and out of Old Paul's
This is my idea of fun
Playing video games

It's you, it's you, it's all for you
Everything I do
I tell you all the time
Heaven is a place on earth with you
Tell me all the things you want to do
I heard that you like the bad girls
Honey, is that true?
It's better than I ever even knew
They say that the world was built for two
Only worth living if somebody is loving you
Baby now you do

(Now you do)

It's you, it's you, it's all for you
Everything I do
I tell you all the time
Heaven is a place on earth with you
Tell me all the things you want to do
I heard that you like the bad girls
Honey, is that true?
It's better than I ever even knew
They say that the world was built for two
Only worth living if somebody is loving you
Baby now you do